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A girl who has never had sexual intercourse called virgin. However deciding to have sexual intercourse with another person is a private and personal matter. Only you can decide- is it right or wrong. No one else can decide for you.

But it is very difficult to save the virginity in modern era. Your peer group and friend circle can press you about it. Everybody's talking about sex, and you don't want to feel left out. Every teenage character seems to be having sex. However they don't know the disadvantages of having intercourse, like unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.

Many girls have sex only because their boyfriends want it. Some other have sex because they feel pressure and think that all their friends are doing it. Some other girls have been lured to sexual misbehavior because they fear they may get sick if they do not have sex before they are twenty. Many parents do not feel comfortable discussing sexual matters and don't give answer when children ask questions relating to sexuality. So the children turn to their peers for answers. And in search of answer the girls' loss their virginity. Many young girls have veered into sexual misconduct simply to please their friends or to be rated as mature by friends.

If you're ready for it, sex can be a wonderful experience. But it is also serious business. It means dealing with many new and complicated feelings. And it means taking responsibility for your own health. Only you can choose the right or wrong way to loss your virginity.

if you do not want to have sex with your boyfriend you tell him that you don't want to have sex. Here are a few polite ways to tell him how you feel:

-Tell him that you like him a lot but not ready to have sex
-Tell him that you don't believe in having sex before marriage.
-Tell him that you can enjoy with him but you are not old enough to have sex.
-Tell force ally that you cannot have sex and it's just your decision.

It takes courage to say no, and you may have to say it firmly a few times. If the boy doesn't respect your decision, then he may not respect you as much as he should. It's important for sexual partners to consider each other's feelings.

The Rape is also a cause of loosing virginity. In this case it should to girls that they tell all condition from their family and police. And make a security surround him using helpful ways.