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Teen Dating Violence



Dating violence is defined as the perpetration or threat of an act of violence by at least one member of a bachelor couple on the other member within the context of dating or courtship.

Violence in teenager dating interaction is a large-scale problem, and may result in long-term trauma and psychological sequel for victims. Also, violence in dating relations may be viewed as a pioneer of violence in adult relationships.

Dating violence is the physical, emotional and oral abuse of one partner by the other partner in a current or former dating relationship. Rude behavior is any act carried out by one partner meant at hurting or controlling the other.

Dating violence is not uncommon among youth. When the mistreatment is physical or sexual, it can be easy to identify. Emotional abuse is much harder to recognize, but no less damaging.

Emotional Abuse-If a boyfriend or girlfriend humiliates, insults, or swears at you, you are experiencing mental and emotional abuse. Other examples include: attempting to manage a boyfriend or girlfriend's activities, trying to demolish his or her self-confidence and self-esteem, and isolating the person from other friends and family. Threats of aggressive behavior are also abusive and should always be taken seriously.

Physical Abuse-Physical abuse includes such things as: hitting, slapping, punching, shoving, kicking, biting, and hair pulling. It includes the use of a weapon, such as a knife, or gun, against a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Sexual Abuse - is any kind of discarded sexual advance or contact. It can contain the lot from unwelcome sexual explanation to kissing to contact. Forced sexual intercourse between two people who know each other is called date rape.

Violent relations have good times and bad times. Part of what makes dating violence so puzzling and hurting is that there is love mixed with the violence. This can make it hard to tell if you are really being abused.

For preventing Dating violence keep in mind the following fact:

*Take action if you suspect that someone you know is being abusive

*If you are hurting someone else, have the courage to get help

*Work to educate other youth about dating violence

*Be on the lookout for friends that may be in violent dating situations or relationships



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